Nurturing Your Child's EQ
June 3rd 2009 14:48
Emotional Intelligence
is one of the most important aptitudes that need to be nurture from a child’s life. From this area lie all the possibilities of a child’s future success. Emotional stability determines how individual can handle and resolve life’s challenges and obstacles. According to many psychologists the best time to start developing child’s Emotional Intelligence is during the early days of his/her life.
Further studies suggest that parents can help nurture their child’s EQ by becoming a role model of good behavior and treating them with love and affections. Honest dealings with them will eventually lead to much easier acceptance of whatever circumstances or situation they may encounter in the future. For instance, many times parents try to hide problems with their children especially when it comes to their misconduct. Instead of telling them that what they have done is wrong, they do sometimes neglect it and thinking that’s only a part of their growing up. Many parents do not understand that sooner or later this negligence in dealing with their child's behavior will do much harm and cause greater problems in them.
Many children now a day has undeniable problems in coping with their bad habits and behavior. One reason is that some parents did not help them in dealing with it since the early days of their childhood life. In recent survey it shows that those children who live in a caring, loving domestic environment are most likely the one who excel in many courses especially in schools and communities rather than those children whom who never experience much attachment and caring from parents. I believe no matter what kind of children you and I have, whether they’re extrovert or introvert they still deserve our help to nurture their emotions. What a fulfillment for us parents to see someday that our children are successful not only in terms of careers but most of all in their relationship and self as a whole.
Further studies suggest that parents can help nurture their child’s EQ by becoming a role model of good behavior and treating them with love and affections. Honest dealings with them will eventually lead to much easier acceptance of whatever circumstances or situation they may encounter in the future. For instance, many times parents try to hide problems with their children especially when it comes to their misconduct. Instead of telling them that what they have done is wrong, they do sometimes neglect it and thinking that’s only a part of their growing up. Many parents do not understand that sooner or later this negligence in dealing with their child's behavior will do much harm and cause greater problems in them.
Many children now a day has undeniable problems in coping with their bad habits and behavior. One reason is that some parents did not help them in dealing with it since the early days of their childhood life. In recent survey it shows that those children who live in a caring, loving domestic environment are most likely the one who excel in many courses especially in schools and communities rather than those children whom who never experience much attachment and caring from parents. I believe no matter what kind of children you and I have, whether they’re extrovert or introvert they still deserve our help to nurture their emotions. What a fulfillment for us parents to see someday that our children are successful not only in terms of careers but most of all in their relationship and self as a whole.
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